“Be aware of old flames who come out of the woodwork about now. You might have been really into them, but it is key to go back into this situation with open eyes because they could be drafting you to weigh up their options for cuffing season,” says Wilson.
“Remember to keep your options open too and don’t settle for the first person that pays interest with you, whether from your past or present. Do what feels right for you otherwise you could be wasting time when you could be finding someone more compatible.
Wilson also advises that it’s important to be upfront about your intentions during this time.
“It is important to be honest with yourself and your new love interest/partner if a cuffing relationship is what you are looking for. This communication is important as you don’t want to break someone’s heart or string them along to simply break up with them as soon as the weather gets nicer. Likewise, if you are looking for a long-term relationship, then voice this after a couple of dates and see how your date responds. Be as authentic as you can be.”
There’s nothing wrong with wanting a cuddle buddy or someone to share those moments with during winter. But being clear about your intentions – be it for a long-term or seasonal relationship – is important during this process.
