Online dating has plenty of benefits, but it comes with it’s own sets of cons. Between the fear of getting ghosted or seen and left on read, it’s easy to lose heart on the idea of virtual romance altogether. But, trust us when we say that it’s not as bad as it looks. Infact, online dating could be your best bet if you want to meet new people and give love a chance. Here’s how:
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Choose The Right App
There are tons of fake dating websites in the market, which is why it’s crucial to find a trustworthy app to begin with. Check performance graphs of various dating apps and what reputation they hold. This could give you an idea as to how your profile would look on them and what audience you could attract.
Be Honest
Research shows that being honest about who you are and what you want makes you more desirable on dating apps. Even saying ‘I don’t know what I’m looking for’ is an honest answer. People might end up talking to you, wanting to know you better or even meeting you, if they find you genuine. On the contrary, if you have a deal-breaker, mentioning it upfront could save a lot of time and effort.
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Get To The Point
Sorry to break it to you but nobody has the time to read a five paragraph essay, especially on a dating site. People swipe profiles in seconds, which is why it’s preferable to only state things that are really important to you and might make you stand apart. However, don’t overdo it as it might end up looking fake or self-obsessed.
People tend to be interested in interesting people. Include what you’re looking for in a potential match. Make your profile 70 percent about you and 30 percent about what you are looking for.
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Keep Conversations Short
Three words–keep it fun! It is not a job interview so don’t bother asking things like, ‘where do you see yourself in five years?’. Asking light and simple questions is a sure way to keep a conversation going online. You can also try starting the conversation with something specific on your match’s profile. Don’t follow a consistent pattern of asking questions or indulge in one word replies and for the love of God, do not ask ‘what else?’ as the conversation might fizzle out.
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